Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Wedding Indian Eeshtyle !!!!!!!

The Indian Marriage.

Marriage and Indian Marriage’s are entirely two different subjects, yeah weddings in Indian could be a research subject, it’s as complicated as the culture, spicy as the dishes, emotional and sentimental as the people, a journey as bumpy and adventurous as the rural Indian roads.

How does it start here , who talks first about it. It could be any of the following situations that leads to a search, leads to a chat, a formal discussion. It could be the maid who complains to the land lady that their son’s bed sheets are increasingly showing stains and the activity has hit a new peak, it could be the 50 year old neighbor , who saw the kid watching an adult movie @ the cinemas, while he was three rows behind. Or it could be the frustrated geek in his early thirties who could never be cool enough to make it himself, who suddenly wakes up from a blanket of codes, just to realize that black rimmed spectacles doesn’t get him laid anymore. There are instances in which the young gun finds a chick, talks to his parents and sticks to his decision come what may, very rare though it happens in India.


My next post will be on the initial step, the different ways about it. The selection process, all I want to say at this moment is I do not make stereotypes, I just see them !!!!!!!.

Let's talk Marriage !!!!!!

Marriage is something which I always loved to hate, always seen through a goggle which would retrieve images of stress, anger, depression and what not. Like if you would ask how could a villain look for an average Indian, he would look like Pran, Prem Chopra or Shakthi Kapoor, might be my stereotype processes this word into images which would reflect a man behind bars, women holding their knees to the chest and weeping the guts out.

The subject deserves, debate attention, introspection, study and a hell lot of research. Crossing 25, People say my fate is decided and I would join the party soon, so this blog is about marriages, married people (men especially), on how marriages are made before they are broken, how it changes life’s, why is it required, why does it kill, when is the right time, how to get it done (Financial's of marriage), a bit of fun, some funny marriages or marriage incidents to be quoted. Guys I hang out with men who are on the run to hit forties and are horny, hungry, hilarious and most importantly un-happy. This blog will have loads from real life experiences and as the standard dialogue goes, does not have any resemblance to anyone alive or dead, and if feel so, it’s just that we both know the same person alive “Coincidence”.!!!!!!.

As they say marriages are decided in heaven and made on earth, must be true, cause certain combination's makes you feel believe it, Punjabi with a Gujarati (Spendthrift and the miser), Maharastrian with a Bihari,( Bau with Bhaiya !!!!), Arab and an Irish, yeah god I feel decides certain things that are real crazy and we definitely give it life and shapes.